PS: I banned you from coming to my journal but I just wanted you to read this . So I have to cancel it for now. ~_^ I know you are coming in here anyway, no matter how you told me you are not! 
because I know you!
Oh, my...My bad. Hindi ko to na kita but someone is stismusa enough to asked me about this. About babysetting your daugther boy, was I having fun or what? So, now, you admit that you forced her to stay with us? You did not tell me this before! I asked you many times and you said she was having fun. Well, like you told me at the time you have no one for her to stay with Your job is the most emportant than your only daugther. I have to admit also, I wish you have told me at the time and did not drop Julie off in my house! I was having a hard time, of course you know because you see it yourself how Triz cries most of the time when she is with Julie! Remember that time when you were so mad at Julie because Triz was screaming and crying because Julie likes to take her toys away just to get Triz upset? Was the money you pay me worth it? Boy, I would rather just set my butt rather than baby setting her again! Actually after that week you droped Julie for a day and that day YOU DID NOT PAY ME! So you see, you still OWE me plus the food that day. Also remember that day you posted in the group mailing list that you wanted to dropped Julie again in my house and I made an excused that my kid was sick and that? Boy, that was one of the reason why I did not say yes becuase of it, I just couldn't handle her any longer. Triz was always crying, plus you know this of course. She would put her two feet up on Triz's computer desk while using Triz's laptop and when she is eating on the table! Of course you know that! And one day we were outside enjoying the food and Julie again try to take the stick away from Triz just to have fun I guess and she almost poke (spelling)? Triz's eye out! Now I have to admit also, I was mad I feel like kicking Julie's butt! Oh well.. Like I said don't lecture me on parenting because even your 12 year old daugther you can't even control. Yeah, they were just being a kid, but do you think Julie doesn't have a brain to think what is right? I wonder why she was so mean with Triz?
And hey I did "NOT" tell anyone about this, you just wanted to mentioned it just part of your plot to make me look so poor again? Am I right again?!
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Hmm... Don't know where to start there is a lot of things that I wanted to write but before I can even begin typing, more would popped up in my head.
I just have to post for the last time (I HOPE) against my husband's advice and friends. There is few who were offended by my so called OLD HUSBANDS nasty previous posts. But there are also understand of what I posted, it was not meant for them. Thanks to those who email and YM me about it. I know you don't want to get involve on this and yes, I don't want to "QUOTE" anyone. Para na yata akung walang ka delikadisa nyan. Private is private. But I was planning to post some emails and YM messages but I thought that's why they send it private because they wanted it that way, right? Hindi naman ako si Carlota, so, hindi ko yan gagawin talaga!
To the people who never know us very well, and will never well. I do have lots of friends. And yes, they are my friends. I don't have any enemies in my circle of friends well, as you can see, not until now. Actually this is the second time she made up story about me. Friends were telling and warned me about her since they had the same faith as I had with her friendship now. Of course she will say the same thing, but she know the truth she is in denial. Well, just imagine kung saan yong party maski she is not that welcome she just have to go (like she said) "DEDMA". It's just like when there is taking pictures she have to run on the other side just to be in the picture. Pakapalan lang kasi ng mukha kamo eh. ~_^
There is conversation that is always on the topic when talking with friends by phone. Of course about my house, no, I am not bragging how can I brag about my house you all can see it anyway. ~_^ if endeed I brag, na, sorry na lang, at least it is true naman. I don't brag or tell people that our house is this kaya pangit tingnan sa pictures! ^_^
Back to the conversations: When she read something in my journal that friends are over in my house na-naman she just need to give them a call "ONE BY ONE" and of course unsa pa pa-dungog dungog and waiting if there is a stismis in my house on that meeting.
Her: So, you guys were in Lanie's "PALASYO" again
Friend: yeah, as usual eat lunch. Yeah, her house it huge!
Her: No, not that big
Friend: Really?
Her: When you walk inside it's not that impressive either.
Well, what that/how is that sounds to you ear? hmmm...
Okey I am not telling you that I am very nice person. All I can tell you is that. Medyo mabait naman ako pag hindi inu-uhan. Super for that matter? ~_^
As to my and my husband: I don't have to tell anyone about how happy we are like I said " action speaks louder than words". and yes I do pray that is not going to change since we don't know the future ahead of us. But as far as I can see we are doing good we respect with each other I can ask him to do things for me same thing with him. He can ask me to get his socks or put his socks on, so far that never happen pa. He cook dinner sometimes after work, usually weekends thats the time he does his cooking and make his very yummy cheese cake for me! ~_^ How's that for bragging huh? And yes, HE DOES READ MY JOURNAL he got my link to his favorite link. But he doesn't really care about this journal thing actually, when I tell him something about someone who is posting this and that that's where he take a look but not to the point that he would spend his precious time to check all them out.
I am happy and very satisfied of what I got. I am bless with 3 beautiful kids and a husband who is true to his own words and who pampered me to the max! ~_^ I can buy whatever I want and I can do shopping whenever the time permit me to do so. ^_^ Oh yeah, I'm still wearing a ruggy cloches as you called them and yes, I do have some nice naman. Do I have to wear nice cloches while taking care of my kids? Hindi naman ako katulad mo na puro lang yabang, at hindi naman ako trying hard to make people believe that I have everything! Kakahiya ka Carlota!
Now, this one I just have to brag I couldn't resist! I do collect BARBIES I have few hundreds of them and yes the colectable one which is expensive. My husband spend thousands of dollars for my collections. It so sounds bragging huh? You might wonder why I need to mention about my Barbies? She told people that my Barbies are the cheap ones, ang kapal talaga ng mukha niya! Wala kasing ginawa kun di ma ingit! I have to admit I am lucky thought, at least she did not tell other lies, like she did to our other friend. She said that the husband wanted her as his kabit. Grabi na yan. Akala niya kung sino talaga siya! Kakadiri!
Also, I don't have to make a list everything that my husband is giving me. Because that is just not right. THERE IS A REAL LIFE BEHIND THE COMPUTER. Oh, b4 I forgot to mention about this. Of course it is true that she told people how poor we were. I still have that email from someone that is one of the member in the group mailing list Of course sino pa si number one na tabi-an. LANIE Grant. Now they are friends na naman daw, of course I am pretty sure Carlota just wanted people to believe that way. When I asked carlota about Lanie Grant email to me, all Carlota would say, kalimutan na natin yan. Of course sabihin nya yan, huli na kasi siya sa mga kasinungalingan niya! Pinag YABANG PA NIYA NA SHE WAS DEAN'S LIST DAW! HAHAHAH! Kaya pala ang galing niyang mag english. Katulad ng english ko! Ang pinagtawanan talaga kasi pina labas niya na she is making 60 dollars an hour!!!! yon pala she is only making $10 an hour! I mean try to ask her company and if you would try to apply there. Then you will know how much she is making, actually, alam ko kung anong company niya.
All for now. Have to take care of my kids na. And I have to take a day off again. ~_^
Have a wonderful life and enjoy of what you got and try to be true to yourself.
The only thing I can say to both of you is to let the frienship go if it is not worth patching up. If this is not the first time, then there is something wrong. Both of you are not meant to be friends. Let just leave it that way. 
Lan Inday, everybody takes side and each of us is entitled 2 our own opinion, I believe in my heart that u r a good person & that's d reason why I befriended w/ u. I may already have an enemy out there that I don't even know...but hey, that's very normal. U may notice that I've only got 7 pals & my sis in my friends list...& d reason 4 that is bcoz I do believe that "TOO MANY COOKS, SPOILS THE BROTH" hahahaha. I am not looking 4 an enemy but those who wants 2 take chance....all I can say is....."THEY'RE BARKING UP THE WRONG TREE". U r my pal like d rest....& that's all there is 2 it 
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Hello Lan, murag nakuratan ko sa imong mga posts for the past days and i got a lil confused bcoz i dnt know who ur referring to. ulahi ra kaayo ko sa balita no? 
i've read all ur posts and realized unsa kamaut, kapangit, kabati, kamangtas sa batasan sa imong "old friend" (kuno). 
ingna sya na magpa check-up na sya sa psychiatrist kay duna syay PERSONALITY DISORDER. 
the problem is with her, wala sa imoha so ayaw lang kaayo paapekto. anyway, tanang dautang butang na iyang ginapangbuhat mubalik mana sa iyaha ug siya ra man ang dli katulog cge ug huna2x kung unsa kahayahay ug ka-happy sa imong kinabuhi karon with ur kids and hubby. 
unta lang dili pa ulahi ang tanan before niya ma-realize na mali iyang ginapangbuhat. 
Lan, yikes!!! It seems I'm the last one to read about the latest shenanigans in the pinays' blog world. I read the other person's blog and left a comment before I made my way to your blog not knowing or realizing what was happening until I've read your recent postings and figured it out. Darn! Pretty sucky situation for everybody concerned. Just know that even as I don't know you personally, I've always enjoyed visiting your blog home and always appreciated your visits to mine. Also, 
Hello sa inyo dyan, Lan, I hope all is well
. Anyway, I stopped by to greet you a "Happy Valentine's Day". Regards me
. It's good to know na, things are settling down, and the chaos has subsided na. Take it easy ah
hi mommy lan, Happy Valentines ninyo ni John. And also kisses to the kids. ;) 
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